You are really lucky to have three selves. The Real You, like your golden, shining Heart, can see your thoughtless, lower, false self do naughty things. Your Blaming Self reminds this lower self not to be so silly, not to put dirt on your Real Self, because then that dirt will need to be polished away. This is how we are able to watch and correct ourselves. Have you heard the word “tawba” before? This word means turning completely away from doing the wrong thing and never doing it again. Your three selves help you to do that.